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5 Tips For Women On How To Make Your Own Decisions For Your Business
Are you one of the thousands of women carrying inferiority complexes with them throughout life, because some well-meaning but ignorant person destroyed your confidence through opinions or ridicule? This article is written to stop women in their tracks of becoming handicapped from listening to others opinions.
1. TIP #1: You have a mind and brain of your own, so use it to make your own decisions whether they are good or not so good. Nobody can tell you what to do and when to do unless you give them permission. If you have the habit of listening to others and acting鈥?stop right away! Did you know that the majority of people who fail to reach their goals are generally very influenced by other people? In the end, you are the one who is accountable. Not the other person who influenced you.
2. TIP #2: You can feel free to make mistakes when you make decisions! Why? Because mistakes are part of the decision process. So what if you make a mistake. Thomas Edison made hundreds of mistakes before he finally produced the first light bulb that actually lit up! So why can\’t you make a mistake and feel good that the more mistakes you make bring you closer to being the winner you are. Mistakes are not failures. They are lessons that bring us closer to finally reaching a woman\’s goal. And yes, some mistakes are costly, but most of the time what we learn from them leads us to never do that thing again! And if somebody laughs at your mistake, a 鈥渓augh鈥?can not stop you from moving forward. Only you can stop you from moving forward. So keep on moving forward.
3. TIP #3: If you need facts to make decisions get the facts from the experts. Now you do know when your significant other or your parents are not the experts. We all do. So stop asking them. Identify people who are your experts and confidents. Ask and talk to your mastermind group if you need advise before making your decision.
4. TIP #4: Talk with positive and affirming people who will not judge and give their own opinion when you are trying to make decisions. Also remember facts are not someone\’s opinion. If someone starts 鈥渨ell, if I were you鈥︹€?close your ears and move on. They are not giving you a fact! They are giving an opinion. Also if someone should give you an opinion (and we know they will do so sooner or later), you have enough intelligence to know it is their idea and not yours.
5. TIP #5: Form a mastermind group to help you make decisions. Mastermind groups happen when two or more people get together and through their spiritual connection evolve a higher level of knowledge working towards a definite purpose, in the spirit of harmony. The minds of you and your friends operate at a higher level and purpose with better ideas and respecting one another.
SUMMARY
So you have what you need to make your own decisions and if you need help to the experts or join a mastermind group to help you. Most importantly know that your decision counts as one more effort to get to your goal and it really doesn\’t matter how your decision turns out as long as you keep striving towards the goal.
About the author:
Dr. Beverly Tillman teaches professional business career women how to overcome obstacles to wealth, balance and freedom so that women can develop to their fullest potential becoming independent and 鈥渙utrageously鈥?successful庐 in business. She has worked with women nationally and globally and always makes a major impact in their lives because she reaches women at the core of their being. Dr. Tillman is a dynamic Speaker, Trainer, Workshop Leader and Coach. She is the President and Founder of LEAP of Faith Empowerment Institute and author of 鈥淗ow to Become 鈥極utrageously\’ Successful庐 in Business鈥? 鈥淢aking The Most Out of Your Life鈥?and several Home Study Guides. Her favorite word is 鈥淵ou beco
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